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How Being Attacked by a Deer Killed My Fear.

Her huge head and fierce brown eyes were less than an arm’s length away and I thought to myself: “seriously? THIS is how I’m going to die?”
Her snorts were drowned out by my screams as I felt the wind from her hooves skimming the small space between us while pinned against that front door, no where to escape.

Top Feng Shui Bedroom Tips.

Feng Shui for attracting love. The most important corner of your home and any room is the relationship corner.
When we enhance the positive of our homes and limit the negative, this energy can flow unrestrained in harmonious ways. Health, money and love come easier and our homes suddenly feel like the refuge from the world they were meant to be.

Start Over for Spring.

Your mantra while doing this? “If I don’t use it, I’m going to lose it. I’m not going to keep things just in case.
I trust the universe will provide me with what I need when I need it. There is someone out there that needs this more than me and will use this rather than my keeping it just in case.”

Think Women are Crazy?

This post is the other side of the coin, and no I’m not going to shame anyone. I vote for peace between the sexes by honoring our differences. I can’t possibly speak for all women but I can tell you, most of us are tired of being labeled.

Clear Your Clutter and Change Your Life.

Ah a new season! And it seems right now is the time to hit the universal reset button for new beginnings and fresh starts. If you’re not wanting to hire a coach or sign up for a life makeover, keep reading. I’m going to show you how to take charge of your own life, and get your own do over.

When Life Blows Up on Every Level.

7 years ago mine did and I survived. I make it a rule to never take advice from someone who hasn’t been there, so I’ll share with you what happened, and then I’ll share how I got through my own personal tunnel of hell. In a 30 day period I lost it all: my money, […]

Should We Treat The People We Love Like Dogs?

In a society that seems to have given up on long term relationships, we’ve lost our desire to make things last. Most of us consider our current love to be Mr or Mrs right Now versus Mr or Mrs right, and dispose of the relationship in the first sign of irritation. Patience has been groomed […]

11 Ways to Keep Your Cool This Summer.

Even though we celebrate the arrival of summertime, it’s easy to lose our balance as well as our tempers under the fiery summer heat. Here are my top tips to stay cool this season. Put your hands in the earth and your body on it.  Digging in the dirt, planting flowers and/or gardening relaxes your […]

What Women Want.

Let me say there’s absolutely no way I would trade places with our men. We may get the short end of the aging stick, but our men definitely have it far harder these days when it comes to dating.  Show up masculine and strong, and we wish you were more emotional and vulnerable.  Show up […]

How to Feel Connection

Polite conversation, (let’s admit) is boring. We spend our days going about our business, waving at neighbors, interacting with co-workers and chatting at parties; yet we  still feel disconnected and lonely. There’s a woman in my neighborhood I’ve never really connected with conversationally, although I’m very social, I can be shy at times and find […]

Happy Earth Day!

Happy Earth Day! It seems our Mother Earth is birthing lately with all of her earthquakes, eruptions, storms and shifts. Like the birth process, it can seem dark and scary, even messy at times. I like to remember that once that dark and mysterious process is over, a baby’s first breath is taken and there […]

Driving to Patience.

I’m one of those people that thinks I’m pretty cool headed behind the wheel and yet I’ve been humbled  a lot lately. While driving down a one lane street last week, a car came speeding up behind me while honking and flashing it’s lights,  I thought “gee mister, take a chill pill we’re all in […]


We’ve reached a point in this world when things seem to be spinning out of control. Mother nature has a mind of her own and the media convinces us daily that our world is in ruin. Standing in the middle, as things around us drop away, or finding ourselves in the place of no longer […]

Dating Do’s & Don’ts. The Top 5 Buzz Killers.

You meet one another, there seems to be chemistry, numbers have been exchanged and the air is alive with possibility. So what are the quickest ways to let the air out of your dating balloon? by Chanpipat 1. Instead of planning a date, ask them “what do you want to do?”  Come on, show some effort here. […]

The Gift of Letting Yourself Be Proven Wrong.

As I write this, it’s thundering, raining and snowing here in Colorado all at the same time.   I realize with a grin that once again my expectations of what’s normal are proven wrong by mother nature. So I’m inspired to ask the question: “Why can’t we drop our expectations and open ourselves up to […]

Beauty Advice – How to Be Beautiful.

Beauty draws more beauty onto itself. They don’t tell us this when we’re teenagers pouring over Seventeen Magazine and longingly watching our friend’s older sisters dress as adults and wear make up.  We grow up dressing our Barbie’s and later, experimenting with our mother’s  make up and dousing ourselves with Love’s Baby Soft or Jennifer […]

Easy Cures for Life’s Little Problems

Problem getting your man to share? After he speaks count to 11 in your head slowly. 9 times out of 10 a man will start to speak again. It’s not that they don’t share with us; we often don’t give them a chance to finish their thoughts since we’re used to bantering with our girlfriends at a rapid pace.

Emotional Freedom.

I woke up this morning feeling sad yet had no reason I could think of to feel so down. Even after taking a yoga class to clear my head, I was left feeling even worse. I realized that sometimes emotions just run through us that have nothing to do with “today”. For me; I tapped […]

Healing Your Heart Without the Other.

How many times are you thinking of someone and they call you?  If you’re like me, often. Science has proven there is a field of energy between us that we can sense even when separated by great distance.  What you think about others is felt and received on a primal level. If you think angry […]

How To Be a Real Friend.

We all know those people that drain our energy, love to complain, seem to be the constant victim, and have an overall negative impact on those around them. These are not the people I’m writing about. Many of  you know I recently went through a major health scare.  I had to sit and wonder if […]

Transform Fear Instantly.

It’s that time of year when we’re all acutely aware of breaking old habits from the past year and walking into the new one fresh and free.  I love to utilize creative ways to break old thought patterns that keep me stuck in old habits. Self doubt and fear are what I wrestle with in […]

Finding Grace through Mice and Mankind.

I just saved an unusual mouse. Usually, I let my cats take care of problems like this, but both kept running between the bathroom and the couch where I was reading as if to say “come on mom, see what we have”.  I got up and caught a glimpse of his small gray self as […]

One Step to Improve Communication Forever

WORD. How can this particular 4 letter example pack so much punch? Whether it’s a religious text, spiritual advice book, motivational seminar, or educational tool; all teach  the same lesson: The power of the words we choose have a  major effect on our lives. Combine our words, our partner’s words and the history of a […]

How to Save Money When There’s Nothing Left Over.

Want to know my favorite way to help clients save money? Consider this, have you ever looked at your online banking statement and been shocked at the large amount debited out for all of those seemingly tiny purchases made over a mere week? I’m talking about those little $4 coffees, $1.50 parking meters and seemingly […]


I do not know the origin of this picture, but what I do know is that love knows no color, race or religion. xo

Your Mirror Knows the Truth.

Reflect back on the last time you witnessed unfamiliar children interacting with one another, they march right up and fearlessly say hello don’t they? Most young children under the age of eight when faced with meeting other kids for the first time, approach in a expectant way of joining the fun.  They don’t stand there wondering: […]

The Mayan Calendar Ends This Friday.

The Mayan calendar ends this Friday October 28th 2011. My take on this? It’s the end of the illusion. We are waking up to the fact that everything “outside of us” is the illusion. So what is real?  We are love, we are source, we are one. We are not our money, not our governmental […]

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