To the wonderful men out there, just for the next 24 hours, when a woman is talking to you, stop what you’re doing, put down your phone, text, email and focus 100% on her face and what she’s saying.
Chances are she will stop for a moment out of shock! This is what women crave the most….a man’s full presence. You might even find she quits repeating herself all of the time.
🙂
And to the lovely women reading this, when a man stops talking during your conversation (even young men!) count to 10 slowly in your head instead of jumping back in. Most every time, they will start talking again. Men think differently then women
(duh!) and while women complain they don’t share…it’s usually because they don’t get a chance to finish their thoughts!
Try it. You’ll be shocked and surprised. Count to 10 during the silence.
xo
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Communication is an art. Self-control is super-human.
LOL~true, so true~
Wonderful advice, but it occurs to me that those men that aren’t aware enough to be listening in the first place are probably not going to be listening to this either. And then, there are those men, like myself, who are already listening, already looking at your face, already 100% interested in you and what you think and what you are saying right now… So, why are so many women interested in talking to the one that isn’t paying attention?